I know we live in a busy world, and Toronto especially is full of busy people. But one thing I really can't stand about living here, is how flippant or flakey some people seem to be. This is definitely not only observed in this industry, but any in which you would need an appointment or reservation.
If a gentlemen is contacting me for an appointment for the first time, first impressions really do matter. We have no idea who we are communicating with. Depending on the day we might have a few inquiries or just one, but being clear and polite really makes a difference.
Most of the time when potential clients contact me they omit at least a few important pieces of information so I cannot go further with the booking process.
An example of a vague email that doesn't make a very good impression is:
looking for an appointment for noon.
A better email would be:
"Hey Charlotte. My name is Rick and I'm a 43 years old, I'm looking for a 1 hour appointment for noon on Friday. My cell number is (_____________) and I recently saw Summer a month ago, her contact info is (_____________). Looking forward to hearing from you.
An even better email would be:
"Hello Charlotte. I found your ad on Eros and it really intrigued me. I've been looking for a gfe companion and read your reviews and I think you are someone I'd love to meet. My name is Rick and I'm a 43 year old lawyer, my P411 ID is ________ and I'm looking for a 1 hour appointment for noon Friday. My cell number is (_____________) and I recently saw Summer a month ago, her contact info is (_____________). I booked her via email and she has agreed to be a reference for me. Let me know if you have any further questions. Looking forward to hearing from you.
The first email comes off as lazy honestly, and requires me to chase you down for information because I received almost none from you. The second contains a little more information that I can start the screening process and be able to book you sooner. The third email gives me a better sense of what you're looking for and all the essential information I need without having to ask "so how did you book Summer? Does she know you are providing her as a reference? What information can I give her to jog her memory?" etc.
I don't try to make anyone jump through hoops or demand tons of personal information, but I am getting frustrated with the amount of men who will either email or text me a generic or vague message and expect me to reply back right away and book them. Intimacy is something that I like to be in the right mindset for, if someone is treating me as casually as food delivery, I am not inclined to be interested.
In my ads and on my website I request some basic information to continue booking and sometimes it's like pulling teeth to get it. If you take the time to read a lady's contact page and provide the information requested this will greatly improve your rapport with her and expedite the screening and booking process.
Have you ever had trouble booking the independent escort that you want?
If you have, have you thought about how you communicated with her? Every lady is different, but first impressions are important.
Some things I find really unappealing that don't lead me to want to respond to an inquiry are:
-Texting in the middle of the night asking if i'm available now
-Saying things like "Hey if you swallow i'll come right now"
-Using slang "Hey bb you avail?" "Hey do you do Gr33k?!"
-potential clients blows up your phone/email with constant messages before you have a chance to respond and starts getting rude "Hello?" "I'm waiting" "Guess you're not interested!" "Bye!!"
-generic text/email "Rates? Restrictions? Availability?" (I'm a person please talk to me like one)
-someone fills out my booking form and avoids putting ANY or most information such as omitting cell phone number, provider reference info, and/or review board handle.
-contacting me for an appointment and when I reply they ignore me and never respond and then weeks/months later continue to keep trying to contact me and ignore me when i respond. -This just gets you blacklisted, it's rude.
-potential client previously cancelled an appointment last minute or no showed and wants a new appointment months later asap
-potential client continuously emails/texts asking questions over the weeks and months but never even attempts to book
-vulgar email address or review board handle. Anyone who has certain terms like cunt, twat, banger, fucker, slapper, slammer, or other off-putting language in their username or email address automatically turns me off. I really can't take someone seriously that they will be kind and respect me if their name is twatflicker, pussybanger, assslapper for instance. Yes I know it's not online dating, but it's still my body and my choice who i trust to be intimate with.
-in the initial booking request if someone insists that they need to be able to slap me, tie me up, bite me or anything that sounds rough and I don't know them, this does not make me trust that you won't do these things even if i say no and book you. Asking if something is ok is fine, insisting that YOU NEED something that hurts me or scares me to happen or you won't book comes off badly.
-Refusing to give any information about yourself or reference even when you have one. (We can't really go anywhere from here if you expect me to agree to seeing you with zero information about you like even a name or cell number)
-DMing on twitter or a review board expecting to book but giving no information about yourself
-sending dick pics or other unsolicited photos
-asking for discounts, or rates for standard sessions that are clearly listed on the website and ads
I have many lovely clients that I adore and appreciate that were courteous and forthcoming about their basic info and requests so we could spend some time together. It's unfortunate but I have had to deal with a lot of individuals that are blacklisted due to disrespectful or difficult behaviour.
In short, we courtesans would love to see you, please just be kind and don't make us chase you around when the first initial contact should contain most if not all the pertinent information when requesting a booking. Getting through the basic details and on to the fun stuff and session planning is much more exciting!
-Charlotte Edwards, your Independent Toronto GFE Escort/Courtesan
Let me be your dream Toronto Escort, the GFE experience you always wanted.